IF YOU'RE READY TO SHIFT FROM imposter syndrome COMPLEX WHERE YOU FEEL YOU may never find your person and if you do, you won’t be ablt to sustain it, TO FEELING LIKE for the first time in your life, you’re on the right track and can actually have the healthy relationship your heart desperately seeks, I CAN HELP.

 
 

SOME PEOPLE DISCONNECT FROM THEIR PARTNERS AND “GROW APART” AND ARE AWARE IT’S HAPPENING BUT FOR US, IT WASN’T THAT. WE HAD BEEN CRAZY ABOUT ONE ANOTHER SINCE WE WERE KIDS. WE MISSED AND LONGED FOR ONE ANOTHER BUT THINGS HAD GOTTEN SO BAD, NEITHER OF US KNEW HOW TO ADMIT WE HAD AN ISSUE, AND CERTAINLY NOT HOW TO FIX IT.

IN THOSE MOMENTS, I FELT LIKE I WAS LOSING MYSELF AND EVERYTHING THAT MATTERED TO ME.  

I HAD THIS GNAWING FEELING OF NOT BEING GOOD ENOUGH COUPLED WITH THE FEAR HE WOULD LEAVE AND HAD FALLEN OUT OF LOVE WITH ME. WAS HE CHEATING,THINKING ABOUT IT, REPLACING ME?

 INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS KEPT ME PARALYZED AND I WAS SURE HE WOULD FIND SOMEONE EASIER, WHO HAD MORE TIME. SOMEONE BETTER THAN ME….

I WAS STUCK, HURT, AND UTTERLY CONFUSED.

 

It Was In These Painful, Chaotic Moments That I Had An Epiphany...

 
 

And GuessWhat? It Worked!

EVERYTHING CHANGED FOR ME.

I WAS NO LONGER OBSESSING OVER MY RESPONSIBILITIES AT WORK 

OR LOSING SLEEP OVER THE DISCONNECT BETWEEN MY HUSBAND AND ME. I STARTED TO TRUST MYSELF AND MY HUSBAND AGAIN.

I STOPPED BEING THE MARTYR, THE 'FIXER' IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP, 

AND STARTED SETTING BOUNDARIES THAT WERE RESPECTED. 

I KISSED THE FEAR OF ABANDONMENT GOODBYE 

AND EMBRACED THE JOY THAT CAME FROM “NO”.

CAN YOU IMAGINE TRADING IN THE ENDLESS CYCLE OF 

BEING ON AN EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER FOR PEACEFUL SLEEP? 

CAN YOU PICTURE WAKING UP TO A DAY WHERE 

YOU'RE NOT HAUNTED BY THE FEAR OF LOSING WHAT MATTERS MOST TO YOU? or even worse, the fear you’ll never find it?

OR HOW ABOUT THIS – REIGNITING THE FLAME AND FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOUR person ALL OVER AGAIN, 

AND HAVING IT BE BETTER THAN EVER BEFORE? WHAT IF THE DATING POOL DIDN’T HAVE “PEE” IN IT? WHAT IF YOU’RE ATTRACTING THE WRONG PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THE UNHEALED PARTS OF YOURSELF YOU REFUSE TO FACE?


ENVISION YOURSELF BEING IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP, NOT FUELED BY ANXIETY AND FEAR, 

BUT FROM A PLACE OF LOVE, MUTUAL RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER’S CAREERS, individuality, AND TRUE CONNECTION. 

SEE YOURSELF AS THE MAIN CHARACTER IN YOUR OWN LIFE, 

NO LONGER ACCEPTING THE BARE MINIMUM 

BUT COMMANDING THE RESPECT AND LOVE YOU DESERVE.

AND THAT DREAM WHERE YOU ARE ENOUGH JUST AS YOU ARE, 

WITHOUT FEELING weighed down by your past hurts, traumas, and RELATIONSHIPS. ACTUALLY BEING INTENTIONAL ABOUT DATING AND LEARNING TO SET STANDARDS AND BOUNDARIES THAT ARE RESPECTED.

THAT BECOMES YOUR EVERYDAY REALITY. YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL

That’s Where Joining A Club Comes In.

 
 

THIS POWERFUL PROGRAM WAS BORN OUT OF MY OWN HEALING JOURNEY AS WELL AS THE WORK I'VE DONE WITH THOUSANDS OF MY OWN COACHING CLIENTS TO CULTIVATE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. 

IT'S DESIGNED TO TAKE YOU FROM YOUR LOWEST LOWS TO YOUR HIGHEST HIGHS, NAVIGATING THE HEALING JOURNEY WITH A PROVEN FRAMEWORK, EMPATHY, AND COMPASSION.

 

I’ll Show You How To...

Improve Work-Life Balance: Learn to establish a healthy work-life balance, enabling you to thrive both professionally and personally. I’ll assist you in setting boundaries, time management strategies, and effective communication techniques, resulting in reduced stress and increased fulfillment in both areas of life.

Rediscover your strength: So that you can love with all your heart, but not lose yourself in the process. What makes you tick? Who are you as an individual?

Dating With Intention: How to set yourself up to attract your forever person, build a solid foundation, and sustain the relationship.

“Hoe Phase” “Player” Recovery: Discover how to heal the invisible scars you carried that led you to look for love in the wrong places and jump from person to person while never finding anything real.

Strengthen Emotional Intimacy: You are already facing challenges in maintaining emotional intimacy with your partner due to hectic schedules. I will guide you in expressing emotions, showing vulnerability, and creating a more profound emotional bond with your spouse.

Cut through the haze of obsessive thoughts and reactive emotions to find a place of calm understanding, where you'll respond, not react. Learn where these thoughts stem from and how to overcome them.

Kick abandonment fears to the curb and embrace your worth, knowing that you are enough - just as you are.

Strategies for Managing Stress: Juggling demanding careers and personal relationships can lead to stress and burnout. I will equip you with coping mechanisms and stress-reduction techniques to navigate challenges more effectively and maintain your overall well-being.

Renewed Romance and Intimacy: Over time, the spark in a long-term relationship may dim due to busy schedules and responsibilities. I will offer creative ideas and practical tips to reignite romance and maintain a sense of closeness and intimacy in the marriage.

Empowerment and Self-Discovery: The club provides a safe space for self-reflection and self-discovery. Through the coaching process, you can gain insight into your needs, values, and aspirations, empowering you to make informed decisions and align your career and relationship goals.

Personalized Solutions for Individual Challenges: Every woman's situation is unique, and my coaching offers tailored solutions to address your specific challenges. We will collaborate to identify personalized strategies for success.

Conflict Resolution and Problem-Solving: Conflicts are inevitable in any relationship. The club will help you navigate disagreements constructively, fostering a positive resolution and preventing conflicts from escalating.

Accountability and Progress Tracking: The club provides accountability and support throughout the journey. We will track progress, celebrate achievements, and make necessary adjustments to achieve the desired outcomes effectively.

Increased Satisfaction and Fulfillment: By finding a balance between your career and love life, you can experience a heightened sense of satisfaction and fulfillment in both areas. This sense of contentment can have a positive ripple effect on other aspects of their lives.

Join the club, and let's strategize together so that you can stand confidently in your relationship journey and have the love that you deserve. It all begins when you start today.

 

nice to meet you

Hi, I'm Shaleea Venney, Master Certified Relationship Strategist, Best Selling Author, Internationally Known Speaker and Podcast Host, and Your Relationship Strategist.

I've been where you are, lived to tell the story, and then helped countless others.

My programs were created because so many have lost faith in meaningful love, the divorce rates are staggering and, lots of the people separating are still in love but felt they had no other option because they lacked the tools needed to work it out.

With clients in more than 115 countries and from all walks of life, I have reached millions of men and women and thousands have participated in my courses, challenges, and coaching programs.

My masterclasses aim to get to the heart of your issues right away, we don’t waste time, we get real, and we get results.

Sit Down With Me Live For monthly check-ins where you can map out your strengths, get real about your weak spots, and receive some in-the-moment feedback on your healing journey.

My success path is strategic and looks different for every person/couple. It's all about healing at your own speed. Focus on what you need and go as quickly or as slowly as you’d like.

My goal is To save you from years of therapy, inevitably filing for divorce, spending unwanted years alone, and to heal you from the inside out so that you can give and receive love properly.. Let me share my insights, and proven strategies to help you save yourself, your marriage, dating journey, and your sanity. Create the kind of balance that makes you feel fulfilled and at peace.

I've been on both sides - the one healing and the one helping others heal. Now, I'm using my story to help thousands of men and women across the globe to get their power back as well.

Joining this journey will be the best call you've ever made. It sure was for me and countless others.

 

What Members Are Saying…

 

Here's What You Get When You Sign Up:

* No commitments,  join any time and cancel when you're ready
* Access on all your devices from anywhere in the world, even on mobile 

MONTHLY COACHING SESSION (starts at $497 VALUE)

When we meet monthly, you'll have a safe space for real-time feedback on your progress, 

ensuring you're able to gain clarity and make adjustments as needed in order to stay on track in your healing journey.

NEW MASTERCLASS DELIVERED EVERY MONTH (Starts at $297 VALUE)

The new monthly masterclass with workbooks + journal prompts encourage 

deep self-reflection and cultivate a regular personal growth routine, enabling you to identify hindering patterns 

while selecting tools that best resonate with your individual needs, and customizing your healing path to fit your unique situation.

DIVE IN FROM ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD FROM ANY DEVICE

 WITH AN INTERNET CONNECTION (Starts at $12,177 VALUE)

Instant and on-demand access to all masterclasses, recorded workshops, resources, and downloads

ensures that you'll always have a supportive resource to turn to, 

providing guidance and inspiration as you navigate the ups and downs of your healing journey.  

Log in on the go, in your car, at the office, or hunker down during self-care Sunday.


BONUS: EBOOK SELECTIONS (Starts at $1,029 VALUE)

My ebook selections (provided free in downloads) help deepen your understanding of the topics discussed

so that you can apply the lessons and implement what you're learning and experience the lasting transformation you really want. Gain access to some of my bestsellers and ebooks that I hand-select and upload just for you.

IMMEDIATE ACCESS TO UP TO $25,000+ WORTH OF HEALING CONTENT

 AIMED AT KEEPING DIVORCE OFF THE TABLE, HEALING YOUR EMOTIONAL SCARS SO YOU CAN FIND YOUR FOREVER PERSON, AND KEEPING YOU FULFILLED IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.

 

Join today for a fraction of the price

(Get 2 months free when you choose the 6-month subscription at 33% off “the club” membership)

 

MORE FROM THE CLUB MEMBERS:

My members have gone on to be more fulfilled at work and at home while rediscovering themselves and reigniting the lost spark in their marriages. Those dating have gotten engaged to their dream partners after doing the work with me.

They learned to set boundaries, the power of NO, and how to relinquish the guilt they felt every day, trading it in for calm and peace. All of this while completely taking the option of divorce off the table and being in the healthy, loving relationships they dreamed of.

 

Frequently Asked Questions:


WHAT IS THE MEMBERSHIP?

THE RELATIONSHIP BOOSTERS CLUB MEMBERSHIP IS AN ONLINE PLATFORM FOR men and WOMEN READY TO END THE CYCLE OF GUILT, FEAR OF ABANDONMENT, loneliness AND DIVORCE SO THEY CAN HEAL AND BUILD AMAZING CONFIDENCE.

INSIDE YOU'LL FIND AMAZING RESOURCES SUCH AS MONTHLY MASTER CLASS RELEASES TARGETING KEY AREAS NECESSARY TO HELP YOU FIND BALANCE IN not only YOUR LOVE LIFE but also your CAREER. THESE INCLUDE HOW TO MANAGE TIME, REBUILD SPARK, COMMUNICATION TECHNIQUES, CHANGE MINDSET, SET BOUNDARIES, HEAL TRUST AND ABANDONMENT FEARS - AND SO MUCH MORE!

YOU WILL ALSO CONNECT WITH ME FOR MONTHLY ONE ON ONE SESSIONs TO COVER YOUR INDIVIDUAL NEEDS.

HOW MANY TIMES A MONTH DO YOU AND I MEET FOR A SESSION?

ONCE A MONTH to unlimited depending on the membership you’re in, GO TO THE “book sessions” tab inside of your portal AND CHOOSE THE DATE AND TIME THAT WORKS BEST FOR YOU.

HOW IS THE CLUB DIFFERENT FROM OTHER PROGRAMS

HERE'S WHAT SETS THE PROGRAM APART:

I GO DEEPER:  TOGETHER WE MOVE BEYOND SURFACE-LEVEL ISSUES AND FOCUS ON CREATING A HEALING PLAN THAT FOCUSES ON THE WHYS. THIS WAY WE ARE ABLE TO FIX YOUR ISSUES AT AN INTERNAL LEVEL. THERE WILL BE NO BANDAID FIXES HERE, WE WILL DO THE WORK TOGETHER TO TRANSFORM YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR LIFE. THERE IS NO OTHER PROGRAM LIKE MINE SPECIFICALLY FOR MARRIED PROFESSIONAL WOMEN.


HOLISTIC HEALING: WHILE I DO HAVE TIPS AND RESOURCES THAT ARE GENERALIZED TO LOTS OF DIFFERENT SITUATIONS, IT IS IMPORTANT FOR ME TO HAVE ONE ON ONE TIME WITH YOU EACH MONTH SO THAT WE CAN DIVE DEEPER INTO WHAT YOUR SPECIFIC NEEDS AND GOALS ARE SO THAT THIS IS NOT A ONE SIZE FITS ALL PROGRAM. IT IS TAILORED TO WHERE YOU ARE AND WHERE YOU DESIRE TO BE.


SELF-RELIANCE: IN MY PROGRAM, YOU'LL UNLOCK YOUR INNER WISDOM INSTEAD OF RELYING ON TIPS AND TRICKS.  SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO COME TO YOUR OWN REALIZATIONS AND FIGURE THINGS OUT IN YOUR OWN TIMING. YOU'LL LEARN TO LISTEN TO THE TRUE VERSION OF YOURSELF MORE.

LASTING TRANSFORMATION: SAY GOODBYE TO SHORT-LIVED FIXES AND EMBRACE CHANGE ROOTED IN CLINICAL PRACTICE AND EVIDENCE-BASED SKILL-BUILDING.  MY PROGRAM IS FOUNDED ON A STRONG FRAMEWORK TO HELP YOU GET UNSTUCK AND STAY THAT WAY.

IN SUMMARY, MY PROGRAM OFFERS YOU A TRANSFORMATIVE JOURNEY TO HELP YOU BREAK FREE FROM TOXIC PATTERNS AND CREATE AN AMAZING RELATIONSHIP AND CAREER BALANCE ENABLING YOU TO LIVE THE LIFE YOU REALLY WANT AND EXPERIENCE LASTING CHANGE.

IS THE CLUB MEMBERSHIP FOR ME?

IF YOU'RE STRUGGLING WITH GUILT, FEAR OF ABANDONMENT/DIVORCE, loneliness, a never ending dating journey, AND WANT TO RECLAIM YOUR MENTAL SANITY, REIGNITE THE FIRE IN YOUR MARRIAGE, or REBUILD YOUR CONFIDENCE, THE MEMBERSHIP WILL GIVE YOU THE STRUCTURE, ACCOUNTABILITY, AND GUIDANCE YOU NEED TO STAY FOCUSED.

IF YOU DON’T HAVE A STRONG SUPPORT SYSTEM, MY MONTHLY GUIDANCE WILL HELP YOU STAY ON TRACK. 

THE CLUB MEMBERSHIP IS FOR men and WOMEN WHO WANT TO STAY CONSISTENT ON THEIR JOURNEY WHILE BECOMING THE BEST VERSION OF THEMSELVES.

HOW IS THE CLUB MEMBERSHIP DELIVERED?

EVERYTHING IS IN THE MEMBERSHIP PORTAL! YOU JUST LOG IN AND CAN ACCESS ALL THE MASTERCLASSES, WORKSHEETS, ONLINE WORKSHOPS, AND MORE. YOU CAN ACCESS THE MEMBERSHIP PORTAL FROM YOUR COMPUTER, TABLET, OR SMARTPHONE.

WHAT SUBSCRIPTION PLAN DO MEMBERS USUALLY CHOOSE?  

the AVERAGE MEMBER STAYS WITH me FOR 8-12 MONTHs. the length of time we spend together is completely up to you. IF YOU'D LIKE TO JOIN AND CHECK THE PROGRAM OUT FOR A MONTH AND THEN UPGRADE, THIS IS FINE.

HOW MUCH OF MY TIME WILL IT REQUIRE EACH MONTH??

THAT’S UP TO YOU! THIS ISN’T A COURSE OR WORKSHOP — THERE IS NO CURRICULUM, NO “HOMEWORK,” NO SCHEDULE.

YOU CAN LISTEN TO THE WORKSHOPS, AND MASTERCLASSES, ENGAGE IN THE MONTHLY CHALLENGES, READ THE EMAILS AND CONNECT WITH ME WHENEVER YOU WANT, AS OFTEN AS YOU WANT. IF YOU’RE SUPER BUSY ONE WEEK OR MONTH, DON’T SWEAT IT. YOU CAN’T FALL BEHIND! 

EVERYONE MOVES AT THEIR OWN PACE. 

THE AWESOME THING ABOUT THE MEMBERSHIP IS THAT IT MAKES IT REALLY EASY TO STAY ON TRACK AND WORK ON EVERYTHING NEEDED TO HEAL YOUR HEART AND BECOME THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF.

WHAT IF I CAN’T FINISH ALL OF THE CONTENT EACH MONTH?

IT WILL BE THERE WAITING FOR YOU! YOU CAN GO BACK TO ANY MASTERCLASS, DOWNLOAD, ETC., AT ANY TIME AND LISTEN/READ/WATCH/PRACTICE WHENEVER YOU WANT AS LONG AS YOU ARE A CURRENT MEMBER. YOUR MEMBERSHIP GIVES YOU A FLEXIBLE STRUCTURE. THERE ARE NO RIGID RULES.

ALL YOU NEED IN ORDER TO START IS THE DESIRE TO LEARN! THE MEMBERSHIP GIVES YOU STRUCTURE, SUPPORT, AND INSPIRATION. if after the 8 week intensive you missed anything, we will meet to discuss and make those items available and clear to you*

HOW DO I CANCEL?

YOU CAN CANCEL YOUR MEMBERSHIP AT ANY TIME FROM WITHIN THE MEMBERSHIP PORTAL!  YOU WILL CONTINUE TO HAVE ACCESS UNTIL THE END OF YOUR BILLING CYCLE. due to the nature of the premium membership/ 8 week intensive, cancellation will not be permitted.

 
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Here Are The 3 Membership Tiers You Can Choose From:


The Club
$37.00
Every month
$149.00
Every 6 months

The Exclusive Club For men and women Looking to be better individuals and partners. Resources like ebooks, downloads, challenges, tips and a free monthly session with Shaleea are included in this jam packed club.


The Club +Plus

The Exclusive Club For men and women Looking to be better individuals and partners. Resources like ebooks, downloads, challenges, tips and more goodies are included. Includes 4 free Monthly 90 minute Coaching Sessions with Shaleea.


The Club + 8 Week Intensive

The Most Exclusive Club For men and women looking to be better individuals and partners. Resources like ebooks, downloads, challenges, tips and an 8 week custom program designed to help you navigate the area you're struggling in. This is a deep dive and Includes UNLIMITED 1:1 coaching sessions with Shaleea throughout the duration of the 8 week intensive program. See Shaleea as often as you'd like.